療癒並不是來自我們不斷地努力而得到，而是在我們陷入困難時，有勇氣去承認、去尋求協助、並勇敢地面對自己和他人的痛苦—集體的苦難，才能獲得的。
我們從療癒中得知的真理，反應在許多不同的面向上，也反應在我們必須為自己站立得住的事上，也反應在周圍的人身上，去憶起是我們的傷痛是以某種集體的力量將我們綁在一起，為得是讓我在共同經歷時變得更堅強。
"Healing does not come from our constant striving to get it right, but from the courage to admit when we we’re stuck; to ask for help; to face our own pain and the pain of others – our collective wound.
Healing comes from the truth reflected in our many faces, in our ability to stand up for ourselves, for our sisters, and to remember that our wounding binds us in a kind of collective strength that makes us stronger for having been there."
-Kristen Roderick
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花點時間好好去看看你真正渴望的事什麼，而不是老是去看別人選擇的結果。這樣，你的生命會一點一點地改變。
我的生命是由我的思維所組成，而我的思維會專注在對我生命有益的事上。
Take time to see the life you desire, not the result of someone else's choice, but your own. Little by little your life will begin to change.
My life is the out-picturing of my thoughts and my thoughts are focused on what is good for me.
~~ Christene O'Toole
